<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0" xmlns:media="http://search.yahoo.com/mrss/"><channel><title><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></title><description><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/</link><image><url>https://suhailidrees.com/favicon.png</url><title>Suhail Idrees</title><link>https://suhailidrees.com/</link></image><generator>Ghost 5.7</generator><lastBuildDate>Mon, 06 Apr 2026 06:37:49 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://suhailidrees.com/rss/" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><ttl>60</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Have deeper conversations]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>This week I&apos;ve been thinking about when I last had a &quot;deep&quot; conversation. </p><p>You know the type of discussion where you talk about more than just what&apos;s happening in life, and more about what those things <em>mean</em>. For example, chats on religion, your plan</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/have-deeper-conversations/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">637b27652eb4b60360fa9a11</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Mon, 21 Nov 2022 07:58:57 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1586806974856-c55e8b9364e4?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDEyfHxjb252ZXJzYXRpb258ZW58MHx8fHwxNjY5MDE3NDI2&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1586806974856-c55e8b9364e4?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDEyfHxjb252ZXJzYXRpb258ZW58MHx8fHwxNjY5MDE3NDI2&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Have deeper conversations"><p>This week I&apos;ve been thinking about when I last had a &quot;deep&quot; conversation. </p><p>You know the type of discussion where you talk about more than just what&apos;s happening in life, and more about what those things <em>mean</em>. For example, chats on religion, your plan in life, philosophical ideas, moral issues, etc.</p><p>In my case, it used to happen a lot at university, and not much more since &#x2013; I guess that&apos;s natural since you have more time with your friends then and there&apos;s less small talk to be made. But since I love these kinds of chats, I&apos;m now consciously trying to &quot;engineer&quot; them in my daily (busy!) life where I catch up with friends much less frequently.</p><p>If you&apos;re also keen to spend less time on the same boring &quot;how&apos;s work going&quot; chitchat and more time on deeper topics, then there are 3 things I&apos;m doing now to help spark deeper conversations that you might find helpful.</p><h2 id="1-recognise-and-avoid-small-talk">1. Recognise and avoid small talk</h2><p>Unfortunately, the default mode is often small talk. This is like the lava floor you are trying to avoid. &quot;How&apos;re you doing&quot; is OK. &quot;How&apos;s work / family / day-to-day going&quot; is a sign to move on. Think of every minute as precious &#x2013; and so every minute spent on extended small talk is a minute of your life you&apos;re never getting back and one you likely won&apos;t remember.</p><h2 id="2-ask-provocative-questions">2. Ask provocative questions</h2><p>As with most things you&apos;ll do in life, you can prepare for a deep conversation (you&apos;re already doing so by making it this far!). I find that it helps to have some provocative questions in mind that you can ask. These may be questions that are a bit personal, or questions that force someone to express an opinion on an issue that matters. For example:</p><ul><li>What keeps you up at night? &#x2013; <em>personal question</em></li><li>Why do you believe in your religion? &#x2013; <em>personal question / force an opinion</em></li><li>Are people inherently good or evil? &#x2013; <em>force an opinion</em></li><li>What&apos;s the most controversial opinion you have? &#x2013; <em>force an opinion</em></li><li>...</li></ul><p>You&apos;re not looking for a yes / no answer. The point is to spark conversation on a topic where you&apos;re not discussing your day-to-day but your opinions and feelings. What can you add to the list?</p><h2 id="3-invest-time-create-the-right-environment">3. Invest time + create the right environment</h2><p>The best conversations take time (and indeed you&apos;ll want them to if you&apos;re having fun!). If you&apos;re just doing a catch-up over a meal, you gotta work with what you have. But if you plan a weekend away with your friends, that sets a different tone entirely.</p><h2 id="conclusion">Conclusion</h2><p>Deep conversations do come organically &#x2013; doesn&apos;t mean you can&apos;t nudge the process along. I think if that&apos;s something you enjoy, it&apos;s totally worth being more intentional about it by steering the conversation in the right direction.</p><p>Do let me know if this is something you think about, or if you have any other ideas to add!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Accelerating tech adoption]]></title><description><![CDATA[It took telephones 50+ years to reach 50% penetration. Smartphones took 10 years.]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/accelerating-tech-adoption/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">636a57932eb4b60360fa9919</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 13 Nov 2022 11:00:07 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1519389950473-47ba0277781c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDR8fHRlY2hub2xvZ3l8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjY3OTE1ODI0&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1519389950473-47ba0277781c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDR8fHRlY2hub2xvZ3l8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjY3OTE1ODI0&amp;ixlib=rb-4.0.3&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Accelerating tech adoption"><p>We&apos;ve all heard the buzzwords &#x2013; AI, Crypto, Quantum Computing, Metaverse, blah blah. Every week you&apos;ll see a new headline to the tune of &quot;Scientists discover X which will completely revolutionise Y.&quot; </p><p>Years later, you&apos;re still waiting for the revolution. What happened to Internet of Things / VR / Bitcoin completely changing your day-to-day? Why did we get shitty lipsync TikToks instead of personal robots?</p><p>This week, following the hype of DALL-E and in the midst of a new AI-based product launching almost everyday to ride the wave (e.g. <a href="https://twitter.com/levelsio/status/1589737798244118528">AvatarAI.me selling $100K in 10 days</a>), I wanted to share a profound graphic from <a href="https://hbr.org/2013/11/the-pace-of-technology-adoption-is-speeding-up">HBR</a> about technology over the last century:</p><figure class="kg-card kg-image-card"><img src="https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/2022/11/rate_of_tech.png" class="kg-image" alt="Accelerating tech adoption" loading="lazy" width="1024" height="531" srcset="https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/size/w600/2022/11/rate_of_tech.png 600w, https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/size/w1000/2022/11/rate_of_tech.png 1000w, https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/2022/11/rate_of_tech.png 1024w" sizes="(min-width: 720px) 720px"></figure><h2 id="2-takeaways">2 takeaways:</h2><ol><li><strong>When a technology has market pull, it spreads much faster now than it did ever before.</strong> By &quot;market pull,&quot; I mean that people actively <strong>want</strong> to use the technology (e.g. the iPhone / smartphone) rather than the technology needing to be forced on to them (e.g. Metaverse). We can see that technologies like the internet or cellphones took only a decade or so to get 50% penetration, while it took significantly longer previously (50+ years for telephones).</li><li><strong>Building hype is much easier now than ever.</strong> The &quot;mitigating factor&quot; against apparent tech adoption is that you hear about new technologies much more easily and earlier in the development cycle, and are inevitably left hanging for years. Stable Diffusion / image AI is an exception, where we see a bleeding edge tech already deployed in consumer-facing apps because &quot;adoption&quot; is not much harder than packaging a script and presenting it on a web front-end for users. The majority of upcoming tech, such as Decentralised Finance or Autonomous Vehicles, is <strong>not</strong> so straightforward.</li></ol><h2 id="all-that-to-say">All that to say...</h2><p>New tech is coming, and will inevitably affect our day-to-day. When it&apos;s ready for deployment it will scale rapidly (e.g. social media in mid-2000s), but it&apos;s important to bear in mind that in this day and age, we hear about tech even before that 0% point on the adoption graph.</p><p><em>Did you find this article interesting? Let me know what you think by <a href="mailto:suhail@mg.suhailidrees.com">replying to this email</a> / <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail">messaging me on Twitter</a>.</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Learn how to grow your wealth]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Today I want to share an article that will change the way you think about money: <a href="https://nathanbarry.com/wealth-creation/">The ladders of wealth creation</a> by Nathan Barry</p><p>We don&apos;t typically think of &quot;growing wealth&quot; as a skill that you can improve. I&apos;ve always taken it to be</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/the-ladders-of-wealth-creation-by-nathan-barry/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">634556dd2eb4b60360fa9710</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 06 Nov 2022 11:00:59 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1624557835271-306e581b1496?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDE5fHxsYWRkZXJ8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjY1NDkxMDQ1&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1624557835271-306e581b1496?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDE5fHxsYWRkZXJ8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjY1NDkxMDQ1&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Learn how to grow your wealth"><p>Today I want to share an article that will change the way you think about money: <a href="https://nathanbarry.com/wealth-creation/">The ladders of wealth creation</a> by Nathan Barry</p><p>We don&apos;t typically think of &quot;growing wealth&quot; as a skill that you can improve. I&apos;ve always taken it to be an outcome of the other things you are doing. But on reflection, why not treat it like a skill?</p><h2 id="overview">Overview</h2><p>When you want to learn piano, or volleyball, or poker, you would surely think of it like a sliding scale you can move up on. You typically start at zero with no skill, then you learn and practice, and work your way along a linear axis towards greater skill.</p><p>We can think about &quot;building wealth&quot; similarly &#x2013; as a skill we can improve. The first step on this sliding scale is something like &quot;exchanging your time for money&quot;, and the final step is something like &quot;owning a marketplace / platform&quot; (like the App Store) which gives you a regular income without having to actively create products.</p><p>Nathan frames this axis into 4 ladders of wealth creation, as a helpful way of grouping similar steps (e.g. &quot;hourly wage&quot; vs. &quot;monthly salary&quot; are both examples of exchanging time for money, but a salary is more reliable).</p><h2 id="my-3-takeaways">My 3 takeaways</h2><ul><li>Building wealth is a skill you can improve. As with every skill, you can pin-point specific things you need to do to get to the next stage (e.g. &quot;learn musical scales&quot; for learning piano, &quot;learn to register a company&quot; for setting up your own business)</li><li>You should invest your savings into yourself and in improving your wealth creation toolkit</li><li>There is a limit to the wealth you can build simply exchanging time for money. The key is to move to a better &quot;ladder&quot;, e.g. selling services</li></ul><p>Do have a read of <a href="https://nathanbarry.com/wealth-creation/">Nathan&apos;s article</a> and let me know what you think!</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Consumption vs. Creation]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Today I&apos;m writing about an idea that first gripped me when I was 13: the balance (or contest) between consumption and creation.</p><p>We&apos;ve all grown up in a world where consumption of content has been very easy. It&apos;s definitely gone a bit overboard with</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/consumption-vs-creation-2/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6318fdbf2eb4b60360fa953d</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 30 Oct 2022 12:00:38 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1545529468-42764ef8c85f?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDE1fHxjcmVhdGlvbnxlbnwwfHx8fDE2NjI1ODM5NjU&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1545529468-42764ef8c85f?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDE1fHxjcmVhdGlvbnxlbnwwfHx8fDE2NjI1ODM5NjU&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Consumption vs. Creation"><p>Today I&apos;m writing about an idea that first gripped me when I was 13: the balance (or contest) between consumption and creation.</p><p>We&apos;ve all grown up in a world where consumption of content has been very easy. It&apos;s definitely gone a bit overboard with TikTok, Instagram, etc. promoting super short-form video, but to be honest <strong>consumption has always been quite easy in our lifetimes</strong>.</p><p>10 years ago, you could watch videos from all over the world on YouTube. 20 years ago, you could get anything on CD/DVD. 30-40 years ago, it was VHS. Before that, you did still have TV even if the content was limited!</p><p>In short &#x2013; we grew up with a hunger for and abundance of (often unhealthy) content.</p><h2 id="the-balance">The balance</h2><p>This question of consumption vs. creation is probably one that everyone has when they first start creating and publicly publishing some original work &#x2013; and immediately feel a sense of reward for having put something out in the world of their own. How much time should I spend on creating?</p><p>If you&apos;re starting out from being fully on the consumption end, I think it is reasonable (and totally worth it) to set yourself a goal of 50-50%, i.e. spend the same amount of time creating as you do consuming.</p><p>What you create is of course up to you. Maybe it&apos;s your writing, videos, photography, music. In my case, oddly enough it started with some 3D artwork (which you are better off not looking up...).</p><h2 id="so-should-everyone-be-a-content-creator">So, should everyone be a &quot;content creator&quot;?</h2><p>I do think content creation is a much better use of time than consumption. In most cases, it can be intellectually stimulating, and can encourage learning and support your growth.</p><p>However, since this article is not an advertisement for going down the so-called influencer route, I think it&apos;s important to &quot;create&quot; for the right reasons. </p><ul><li>Are you working towards a goal?</li><li>Are you building a skill?</li><li>Are you bringing yourself into a community you like (e.g. writers, photographers, musicians)?</li></ul><h2 id="should-we-be-consuming-at-all">Should we be consuming at all?</h2><p>While I&apos;d say I&apos;m a proponent of increasing the time spent on creating, I do wonder what the right amount of consumption is. I don&apos;t think it&apos;s zero. That said, <strong>I think there are a few ways to be mindful about what you consume.</strong></p><p>When you next find yourself watching YouTube videos or TV shows or movies, do ask yourself:</p><ul><li>Is this content inspiring to me?</li><li>Am I consuming to unwind or feel relaxed? (and if so, how much of it do I need?)</li><li>Am I consuming only to fill time? Could I instead do something more interesting?</li></ul><p></p><p><em>Is this a question you have asked yourself in the past? Tell me what you think by replying / <a href="mailto:suhail@mg.suhailidrees.com">emailing me</a>!</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Make efficient decisions]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Do you find yourself mulling over every single decision? I&apos;m often guilty of taking way too long deliberating before coming to an answer &#x2013; sometimes even for very simple decisions. How do CEOs make decisions?</p><p>There are lots of tricks in a CEO&apos;s toolkit for making</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/how-jeff-bezos-makes-decisions/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">63121d792eb4b60360fa94b5</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 23 Oct 2022 12:00:14 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1544243747-b8ca15da2450?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDIzfHx0aGlua2luZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2NjIxMzI3MzU&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1544243747-b8ca15da2450?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDIzfHx0aGlua2luZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2NjIxMzI3MzU&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Make efficient decisions"><p>Do you find yourself mulling over every single decision? I&apos;m often guilty of taking way too long deliberating before coming to an answer &#x2013; sometimes even for very simple decisions. How do CEOs make decisions?</p><p>There are lots of tricks in a CEO&apos;s toolkit for making decisions effectively and efficiently. I want to share a couple with you that I found useful!</p><h2 id="1-jeff-bezoss-decision-types">1. Jeff Bezos&apos;s decision types</h2><p>According to our friend Jeff, there are two types of decisions:</p><ul><li><strong>Type 1 decisions:</strong> Irreversible* (one-way doors)</li><li><strong>Type 2 decisions: </strong>Reversible (two-way doors)</li></ul><p><em>(*) Irreversible means that the <strong>barrier </strong>to reverse it is too high, even if the decision might technically be reversible. </em></p><p>If you&apos;re making an &quot;irreversible&quot; type 1 decision, like deciding which university to go to and committing for a full first year, you should really spend the time to consider it since it will have a lasting impact and it&apos;s hard to back out from.</p><p>If it&apos;s a &quot;reversible&quot; type 2 decision, like buying a shirt you can return, then there&apos;s no point wasting too much time over it. Do it quickly (and maybe even buy lots of shirts to return a few later) &#x2013; you can always go back if you need to.</p><p>This method is targeted at organisations (particularly as they get large) so that they don&apos;t spend too long to make type 2 decisions, but there&apos;s no reason we can&apos;t apply it to our own lives!</p><h2 id="2-how-long-to-consider-a-decision">2. How long to consider a decision</h2><p>Another interesting rule (thought I can&apos;t remember the source for this one) is to spend more time considering decisions that will have a lasting impact.</p><ul><li>If a decision will affect <strong>a week </strong>of your life, wait<strong> 24 hours</strong> before you make your mind.</li><li>If it will affect <strong>a year</strong> of your life, wait <strong>a month</strong> before you make your mind.</li></ul><p>And so on... </p><p>The time you actually wait depends on your risk appetite, but the principle is to scale up your thinking time with the size of impact.</p><p></p><p>Do you have any tips and tricks for quick decision-making? Let me know by <a href="mailto:suhail@mg.suhailidrees.com">emailing me</a> / replying to this email!</p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Building in public update - Echomail]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Last week, I set myself a 1-week challenge to build an MVP (Minimum Viable Product) for a product I really wanted. More details on the problem I was solving in <a href="https://suhailidrees.com/building-in-public-project-1/">last week&apos;s post</a>.</p><h2 id="%F0%9F%94%A8-why-build-in-public">&#x1F528; Why build in public?</h2><p>In short, I wanted to:</p><ul><li>Try out the &quot;<a href="https://austinkleon.com/show-your-work/">Show</a></li></ul>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/echomail-building-in-public-update/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">634c4d4d2eb4b60360fa97eb</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 16 Oct 2022 18:53:03 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/2022/10/home_bg_twitter.png" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/2022/10/home_bg_twitter.png" alt="Building in public update - Echomail"><p>Last week, I set myself a 1-week challenge to build an MVP (Minimum Viable Product) for a product I really wanted. More details on the problem I was solving in <a href="https://suhailidrees.com/building-in-public-project-1/">last week&apos;s post</a>.</p><h2 id="%F0%9F%94%A8-why-build-in-public">&#x1F528; Why build in public?</h2><p>In short, I wanted to:</p><ul><li>Try out the &quot;<a href="https://austinkleon.com/show-your-work/">Show Your Work</a>&quot; mindset by lowering the barrier to sharing online</li><li>Build the habit of posting on <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail">Twitter</a> regularly</li><li>Get early user feedback to help guide design</li></ul><h2 id="%F0%9F%A4%94-how-did-it-go">&#x1F914; How did it go?</h2><p>Looking at my daily updates over the last week, it&apos;s been a very interesting week! On top of the usual product development and tweaking, I enjoyed sharing my progress along the way and even getting some engagement in return. A massive thank you to those of you who signed up for the updates on Twitter!! &#x1F60D;</p><p>The product (Echomail) is now live for public use, even though it&apos;s obviously just an early version. You can read more about it <a href="https://echomail.uk/">here</a> and <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/status/1581273589462204416?s=20&amp;t=jUGmAXHPCHLZX219RadGEA">here</a> if you&apos;re interested.</p><h2 id="%F0%9F%93%83-my-takeaways-from-building-in-public">&#x1F4C3; My takeaways from building in public</h2><p>Building in public is almost a &quot;hack&quot; because it lets you build engagement, get early feedback, and lower your barrier to using social media productively &#x2013; while essentially using content you were going to generate anyway. However, there&apos;s another hidden benefit: the connections you make.</p><p>At my work, if you were to ask anyone what the best part of the job is, almost invariably the answer would be &quot;the people who work here,&quot; (in spite of the various other benefits of the job). Connecting with people who are interested in the same things as you is a great way to build your network, and sharing your work is one way to signal your interests.</p><p>If you have things you build / work on on the side, I&apos;d highly recommend trying out this approach. It can be a great way to get feedback, encouragement (and even a sense of accountability!)</p><p>If you would like to follow future updates on projects I am working on, do check out my <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail">Twitter</a> where I will post more regular updates.</p><p>Thanks for reading :)</p><p>My daily updates for Echomail: <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/status/1579154733654499328?s=20&amp;t=jUGmAXHPCHLZX219RadGEA">[1]</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/status/1579532312026701825?s=20&amp;t=jUGmAXHPCHLZX219RadGEA">[2]</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/status/1579879690248286208?s=20&amp;t=jUGmAXHPCHLZX219RadGEA">[3]</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/status/1580257083223846921?s=20&amp;t=jUGmAXHPCHLZX219RadGEA">[4]</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/status/1580605943074934785?s=20&amp;t=jUGmAXHPCHLZX219RadGEA">[5]</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/status/1581038092852482049?s=20&amp;t=jUGmAXHPCHLZX219RadGEA">[6]</a> <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/status/1581273589462204416?s=20&amp;t=jUGmAXHPCHLZX219RadGEA">[7]</a></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Building in public - Project #1]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Today&apos;s a special newsletter and I think you&apos;ll find it interesting if you want to show your work in public / online.</p><p>I&apos;m going to spend the next week &quot;building in public&quot; a tool I could really use. I&apos;ll be posting</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/building-in-public-project-1/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6341f09e2eb4b60360fa967c</guid><category><![CDATA[Coding]]></category><category><![CDATA[Problem-solving]]></category><category><![CDATA[Productivity]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 09 Oct 2022 11:00:09 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1603791440384-56cd371ee9a7?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDJ8fGVtYWlsfGVufDB8fHx8MTY2NTI2NTg0NA&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1603791440384-56cd371ee9a7?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDJ8fGVtYWlsfGVufDB8fHx8MTY2NTI2NTg0NA&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Building in public - Project #1"><p>Today&apos;s a special newsletter and I think you&apos;ll find it interesting if you want to show your work in public / online.</p><p>I&apos;m going to spend the next week &quot;building in public&quot; a tool I could really use. I&apos;ll be posting daily updates on the <a href="https://suhailidrees.com/">website</a> and my <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail">Twitter</a> (but I won&apos;t email these updates so as to not spam your inboxes so follow my Twitter if you&apos;d like to be a part of the journey!)</p><h2 id="%F0%9F%A7%AE-the-problem">&#x1F9EE; The problem</h2><p>The problem I&apos;m trying to solve is that <strong>people often have email addresses that are too long to communicate easily on the phone</strong>. In my case, it includes my full name and it&apos;s a nightmare to spell out every time.</p><p>Email shorteners / alias providers aren&apos;t great either. In most cases you can get a random email alias that&#x2019;s no easier (try saying 1u90-qro3-wuy2@anonaddy.com on the phone!) or an unusual domain name that&apos;s unintuitive because it doesn&apos;t contain &quot;mail&quot; in the name.</p><h2 id="%F0%9F%93%A7-the-projectan-email-forwarding-service">&#x1F4E7; The project - an Email forwarding service</h2><p>Over the next week, I&#x2019;ll be building an email forwarding service that would let you:</p><ol><li>Sign in with Google (since almost everyone has a Gmail)</li><li>Create your own email alias for free (e.g. shortword@shortdomain.com) that&apos;s easy to say</li><li>Receive emails on this alias. They would be forwarded to your Gmail, and you can reply back to them</li></ol><p>The ideas is to have something you sign up to ONCE, then you don&apos;t have to revisit it (everything happens within your Gmail inbox). </p><h2 id="%E2%9C%85-the-game-plan">&#x2705; The game plan</h2><p>In terms of my plan, I&apos;m going to start by setting up a web server and connecting to the Mailgun API. I&apos;m sure it&apos;s not the most efficient way to build this tool, but I just want a solution that works. </p><p>I&apos;ve laid out my to-do list / backlog today and it looks something like this:</p><figure class="kg-card kg-image-card"><img src="https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/2022/10/Notion_yR6ihVdg3r.png" class="kg-image" alt="Building in public - Project #1" loading="lazy" width="1173" height="989" srcset="https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/size/w600/2022/10/Notion_yR6ihVdg3r.png 600w, https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/size/w1000/2022/10/Notion_yR6ihVdg3r.png 1000w, https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/2022/10/Notion_yR6ihVdg3r.png 1173w" sizes="(min-width: 720px) 720px"></figure><h2 id="%F0%9F%9A%80-follow-for-updates">&#x1F680; Follow for updates!</h2><p>I&apos;ll be sharing daily updates on <a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail/">Twitter</a> so follow there for updates and to tell me what you think along the way!</p><!--kg-card-begin: html--><a href="https://twitter.com/idrees_suhail?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw" class="twitter-follow-button" data-size="large" data-dnt="true" data-show-count="false">Follow @idrees_suhail</a><script src="https://platform.twitter.com/widgets.js" charset="utf-8"></script><!--kg-card-end: html-->]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Would you take this bet?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>If I offer you a $10 bet on a coin flip, would you take it?</p><p>According to decision theory, <strong>not many people are likely to take that bet </strong>because they&apos;ll <em>feel</em> the negative impact of losing $10 a lot more than they&apos;ll <em>feel </em>the positive impact</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/loss-aversion/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6308b1be2eb4b60360fa93ec</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 02 Oct 2022 11:00:26 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1568085370188-5e8b2418d85c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDZ8fGNvaW4lMjBmbGlwfGVufDB8fHx8MTY2MTUxNjM5Ng&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1568085370188-5e8b2418d85c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDZ8fGNvaW4lMjBmbGlwfGVufDB8fHx8MTY2MTUxNjM5Ng&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Would you take this bet?"><p>If I offer you a $10 bet on a coin flip, would you take it?</p><p>According to decision theory, <strong>not many people are likely to take that bet </strong>because they&apos;ll <em>feel</em> the negative impact of losing $10 a lot more than they&apos;ll <em>feel </em>the positive impact of gaining $10.</p><p>This cognitive bias is called &quot;<strong>loss aversion</strong>&quot;... and I think it&apos;s just absurd.</p><p>Whether you know it or not, your life gets impacted by this bias almost every day. For example &#x2013; <strong>Ever taken a free trial? </strong>One of the reasons you get offered one of those is that you will fear losing something you have so much that you&apos;ll buy the full product or service.</p><p>It&apos;s also interesting that this <strong>bias seems to get stronger as the stakes are increased</strong>. If 1 in 10 people might have taken the $10 bet above, then it would probably be 1 in 100 might take it if we increase it to $100 or $1000. Wonder how many it would be if the stakes were to take your Netflix privileges away. &#x1F609;</p><p>While the principle of not wanting to lose something is obvious, it really jumped out to me that even when the odds are 50:50, most people would not take the bet. It really shows that we are a species that&apos;s evolved to cling to certainty.</p><p>Another cool thing is that this area of psychology is still being explored, with research on the effect of higher/lower stakes coming as recently as 2017.</p><p><em>Take a minute to reflect on your decisions in the last month. Is this something that&apos;s affected you?</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to get a discount]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Spoiler alert: This article is about building confidence and grit &#x2013; the discount is a bonus! ;)</p><p>Here&apos;s a fun challenge for you to try out next week: <strong>Every time you go for a coffee (or sandwich, or lunch) this week, ask for 10% off.</strong></p><p><strong>Whether or not you</strong></p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/how-to-get-a-discount/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">630686582eb4b60360fa9377</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 25 Sep 2022 11:00:39 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1444418776041-9c7e33cc5a9c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDU0fHxjb2ZmZWV8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjYxMzczMDgw&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1444418776041-9c7e33cc5a9c?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDU0fHxjb2ZmZWV8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjYxMzczMDgw&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="How to get a discount"><p>Spoiler alert: This article is about building confidence and grit &#x2013; the discount is a bonus! ;)</p><p>Here&apos;s a fun challenge for you to try out next week: <strong>Every time you go for a coffee (or sandwich, or lunch) this week, ask for 10% off.</strong></p><p><strong>Whether or not you get it doesn&apos;t matter</strong> (though I&apos;ll tell you how often it works). This &quot;comfort challenge&quot; is all about building your confidence and overcoming your fear of rejection, by forcing yourself into a slightly uncomfortable situation.</p><p>There&apos;s actually very little downside to it. Worst case, you&apos;ll get told no. So what? It&apos;s like being told a coffee isn&apos;t available, it&apos;s not a big deal. You just move on with your life. The upside is pretty good, though. If you do it for a week, it will really help build your confidence and you will learn how to act in uncomfortable situations.</p><p>The way I see it &#x2013; you <strong>will </strong>definitely have uncomfortably situations in the future. Maybe someone calls you out on something in a work meeting, or you get caught up in a fight, or you get told that your flight is fully booked and you need to wait for another one. <strong>Why not practice for those situations now?</strong></p><p>In a way, it&apos;s a bit like practicing for an exam or an interview. One rule though: Since it&apos;s not about getting the discount, you can&apos;t say it&apos;s an experiment. You must own up to the request when you make it.</p><p>If you get in the habit of doing so, you&apos;ll naturally learn how to carry yourself more confidently &#x2013; and I think that&apos;s a skill worth learning in just a week!</p><p>By the way, I heard about this challenge from <a href="https://tim.blog/">Tim Ferriss</a> (author of the 4 hour work week). Do check out his stuff if you found it interesting.</p><p>As promised, I&apos;ll tell you about my experience when I tried it out last week: <strong>I got a discount ~50% of the time</strong>. I&apos;d say that&apos;s pretty good!</p><p></p><p><em>Do try it out this week, and reply back / <a href="mailto:suhail@mg.suhailidrees.com">email me</a> to let me know how it went. And most importantly: if it got easier every time you asked for me!</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[The key to success]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>The upfront disclaimer: I don&apos;t have a key of success.</p><p>And the TL;DR: <strong>Consistency </strong>is probably more important than a lot of other qualities when it comes to success.</p><p>If you&apos;re still reading, I want to share with you a super interesting example I learned</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/the-key-to-success/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6302690c2eb4b60360fa92cb</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 18 Sep 2022 11:00:27 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1491555103944-7c647fd857e6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDd8fHN1Y2Nlc3N8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjYxMTAzOTQy&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1491555103944-7c647fd857e6?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDd8fHN1Y2Nlc3N8ZW58MHx8fHwxNjYxMTAzOTQy&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="The key to success"><p>The upfront disclaimer: I don&apos;t have a key of success.</p><p>And the TL;DR: <strong>Consistency </strong>is probably more important than a lot of other qualities when it comes to success.</p><p>If you&apos;re still reading, I want to share with you a super interesting example I learned about this week. I&apos;ve always found it interesting to follow when people share their work-in-progress publicly. I think this one takes the crown.</p><p><strong>Josh Pigford </strong>is a serial entrepreneur who shares on his <a href="https://joshpigford.com/projects">website</a> the 62 (!) projects that he has worked on in the last 20 years.</p><p>I think this list is absolutely fascinating. Looking through it, most projects were &quot;failures&quot; in that they were shut down. There&apos;s a minority that he sold for anywhere between <a href="https://joshpigford.com/projects/daily-translation">$200</a> and <a href="https://joshpigford.com/projects/baremetrics">$4,000,000</a> (!). And then there are a few that are still active.</p><p><u>My takeaways:</u></p><ul><li><strong>It doesn&apos;t take all that much to start something new.</strong> A lot of the projects are Amazon affiliate sites. Some are just 1 page website that let you do something simple, e.g. a phrase guesser. The big ones are definitely more sophisticated (e.g. the $4M project was a business insights app), but it really drives home that the barrier to entry of starting a side project that <em>could</em> potentially blow up is actually quite low.</li><li><strong>Follow the trends.</strong> As you look through the projects, they&apos;re highly reminiscent of what was going on at the time. For example a web template building service in 2006, Photoshop tutorials in 2007, smart Spotify playlists in 2019, visual NFT voting in 2021. Often the first to serve an unmet need gains a huge advantage in the market, and following / predicting trends can be really useful.</li><li><strong>Sometimes, there are too many variables to recognise the &quot;right&quot; idea, so try a bunch of things.</strong> Planning ahead of work is important &#x2013; and picking the right product and market cannot be overrated &#x2013; but I think it&apos;s also important to recognise situations where you&apos;re unlikely to accurately predict the outcome. There will always be unpredictability, especially when you&apos;re on the bleeding edge (think crypto, NFTs and the metaverse). In this case, it might just be wiser to try a bunch of things and see what sticks! Some people refer to this approach as <a href="https://www.forbes.com/sites/kevinready/2012/08/16/ready-fire-aim/">Ready, Fire, Aim</a>.</li></ul><p></p><p><em>How do you go about deciding which projects to work on? Do you also have a &quot;graveyard&quot; of old side hustles? </em></p><p><em>Let me know by <a href="mailto:suhail@mg.suhailidrees.com">emailing me</a> / replying to this newsletter!</em></p><p></p><p></p><p></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[What's your type?]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>I&apos;m sure you&apos;ve seen lots of personality quizzes online. While it&apos;s always fun to find out which Powerpuff Girl you are, the personality quiz I&apos;m talking about is called <strong><a href="https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/">MBTI</a></strong>.</p><p>I&apos;m not big on psychological tests, but having used MBTI</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/whats-your-type/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62fd54b62eb4b60360fa9231</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 11 Sep 2022 12:00:42 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1618590067824-5ba32ca76ce9?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDN8fHBlcnNvbmFsaXR5fGVufDB8fHx8MTY2MDc3MDc5OQ&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1618590067824-5ba32ca76ce9?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDN8fHBlcnNvbmFsaXR5fGVufDB8fHx8MTY2MDc3MDc5OQ&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="What&apos;s your type?"><p>I&apos;m sure you&apos;ve seen lots of personality quizzes online. While it&apos;s always fun to find out which Powerpuff Girl you are, the personality quiz I&apos;m talking about is called <strong><a href="https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/">MBTI</a></strong>.</p><p>I&apos;m not big on psychological tests, but having used MBTI for 5 years now, I can give you <strong>2 good reasons to take it</strong>.</p><h2 id="what-is-mbti">What is MBTI?</h2><p>It&apos;s a personality test that tells you where you stand on 4 dimensions. Based on your standing, you get a letter for each dimension, so you end up with a 4 letter personality type (such as &quot;ESTJ&quot;).</p><p>As an example, the first letter can be E (Extraversion) or I (Introversion), which tells you whether you prefer to focus on the external world or your own inner world. I won&apos;t cover the rest now but you can read about them <a href="https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/">here</a>.</p><h2 id="why-take-it">Why take it?</h2><p>Here are your promised 2 reasons to take the MBTI quiz:</p><ol><li><strong>It will tell you your &quot;default&quot; behaviour, so that you can be more <u>intentional</u> about your daily life. </strong><br><br>For example, if MBTI tells me that I am introverted, it means that by default I might not put enough energy as I&apos;d like into social situations. I can then decide if I&apos;m OK with that, or if I&apos;d like to have a huge social circle, in which case I will need to actively invest in doing so.<br><br>(I&apos;ve used extraversion/introversion as an easy-to-understand example, but I&apos;d recommend <a href="https://www.myersbriggs.org/my-mbti-personality-type/mbti-basics/">reading more on MBTI</a> to learn about the other dimensions).<br><br></li><li><strong>It will give you a common language when working with others who have taken the test.</strong><br><br>Relaying your personality traits to someone can usually be very difficult and often frustrating. MBTI can be a helpful tool for communicating your personality type to others, so they can know what to expect. In a way, it helps translate what people might have called &quot;idiosyncrasies&quot; into personality traits that you need to be aware of.<br><br>For example, instead of saying &quot;I prefer to make lists for every single thing I do&quot;, you can say &quot;I&apos;m a J.&quot;</li></ol><p></p><p><em>Have you taken MBTI or a similar test? Let me know what you thought about it by replying to this email!</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Storyworthy - living in the moment]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>Let&apos;s take a journey down memory lane. </p><p>How much do you remember about the last 3 months? Do you remember everything you did? Or is it a bit of a blur and you remember just a handful of moments?</p><p>When I think back, I almost always find that</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/storyworthy/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62fd4d702eb4b60360fa919f</guid><category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 04 Sep 2022 12:00:46 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1582115422763-db7417d14db2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDE0fHxwdWJsaWMlMjBzcGVha2luZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2NjA3NjkxNjA&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1582115422763-db7417d14db2?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDE0fHxwdWJsaWMlMjBzcGVha2luZ3xlbnwwfHx8fDE2NjA3NjkxNjA&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Storyworthy - living in the moment"><p>Let&apos;s take a journey down memory lane. </p><p>How much do you remember about the last 3 months? Do you remember everything you did? Or is it a bit of a blur and you remember just a handful of moments?</p><p>When I think back, I almost always find that time has flown and I remember much fewer things than I&apos;d expect &#x2013; was it really 2.5 years ago that we first went into lockdown?!</p><h2 id="learning-to-remember">Learning to remember</h2><p>In his book &quot;<strong><a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Storyworthy-Engage-Persuade-through-Storytelling/dp/1608685489">Storyworthy</a></strong>&quot;, Matthew Dicks describes a method to keep track of your days in an interesting way.</p><p>Don&apos;t worry, I&apos;m not going to suggest writing a diary!</p><p>The exercise is called &quot;Homework For Life&quot;. At the end of every day, ask yourself &quot;what was the most <em>storyworthy</em> moment of my day?&quot; and record it in your favourite notes app (or a spreadsheet if that&apos;s your jam).</p><p>I know you&apos;ll have a couple of questions so I&apos;ll answer them now:</p><ul><li>Yes, you definitely have storyworthy moments everyday. It doesn&apos;t need to be a once-in-a-lifetime moment, just something that stood out to you as an interesting occurrence and you would mention to someone else.</li><li>Yes, it takes just 5 minutes, and yes you definitely have a spare 5 minutes for this.</li></ul><p>But what&apos;s the point?</p><h2 id="the-benefits">The benefits</h2><p>There are 3 things you&apos;ll get in return for the time you spend on Homework For Life:</p><ol><li>You&apos;ll realise that even if you think your life is relatively boring or mundane, you have way more &quot;storyworthy&quot; moments than you&apos;d expect. At the very least, this can help you in your daily life in making interesting conversation.</li><li>Over time, you will train yourself to live more in the moment. This is because you&apos;ll start wondering even before the end of the day, &quot;is this the moment I&apos;ll record tonight?&quot; and as a result you&apos;ll find yourself being more &quot;present&quot;.</li><li>You&apos;ll never again feel like &quot;time has flown by,&quot; because now you can always look back and remember how a day, or week, or month really went. Time will seem to unnaturally stretch.</li></ol><p>So there it is. Do give &quot;Homework For Life&quot; a try &#x2013; even if just for the next 7 days.</p><h2 id="the-book">The book</h2><p>There is much more to the book &quot;Storyworthy.&quot; If you&apos;ve ever been interested in being able to tell better stories, or if you like the idea of being more present in life, <a href="https://www.amazon.co.uk/Storyworthy-Engage-Persuade-through-Storytelling/dp/1608685489">do check it out</a>!</p><p></p><p><em>Like this newsletter? Share the love by forwarding it on!</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[How to not procrastinate]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>If you&#x2019;re anything like me you have probably had moments of inspiration where you decide you want to do something productive. But then it&#x2019;s a week later and you&#x2019;re wondering why you haven&apos;t gotten to it yet &#x2013; and you realise you</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/how-to-not-procrastinate/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62f8c8182eb4b60360fa9113</guid><category><![CDATA[Productivity]]></category><category><![CDATA[Psychology]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 28 Aug 2022 12:00:20 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1518281420975-50db6e5d0a97?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDEwfHx0aW1lfGVufDB8fHx8MTY2MDQ3MjAxNQ&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1518281420975-50db6e5d0a97?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDEwfHx0aW1lfGVufDB8fHx8MTY2MDQ3MjAxNQ&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="How to not procrastinate"><p>If you&#x2019;re anything like me you have probably had moments of inspiration where you decide you want to do something productive. But then it&#x2019;s a week later and you&#x2019;re wondering why you haven&apos;t gotten to it yet &#x2013; and you realise you <em>just didn&#x2019;t have the time</em>. It wasn&#x2019;t your fault. You didn&#x2019;t <em>really </em>procrastinate. You just have a very busy schedule between workm, and a social life, and a personal life &#x2013; there simply just wasn&#x2019;t enough time to get to this productive thing.</p><p>Time for an uncomfortable truth.</p><p>In 99% of cases, you absolutely did have the time. It&apos;s a bit absurd to say you didn&apos;t have <em>any</em> time in the 168 hours we all get every week. Elon Musk is off building rockets with the same number of hours. You did have time, you just didn&#x2019;t use it. </p><h2 id="so-how-do-you-get-around-this-problem">So how do you get around this problem?</h2><p>One life hack is to <strong>schedule time in your diary </strong>to do productive things, or even the admin things you would otherwise put off. </p><p>Yes, yes &#x2013; I sound like a maniac for scheduling &quot;work&quot; on a weekend. But it&apos;s not stupid if it works, right?</p><p>If you have any task on your radar that you think you might put off, a great way to make sure it gets done is to put in the block in your diary ahead of time to dedicate towards it. It probably doesn&#x2019;t sound like it would make a difference &#x2013; but for me it completely changes my mindset about it. </p><p>Now I know the task is coming and I know when it&#x2019;s coming. which means I no longer have to worry about it ahead of time, or worry about procrastinating. When it gets to time, I just think: I have a protected hour now solely to do this one thing, let me get through it so I don&apos;t have to worry about it again. And that is a <strong>much greater level of motivation </strong>then I would&#x2019;ve had otherwise.</p><p><em>Do try it out and let me know if it works! (reply to this email)</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Identity-based Goals]]></title><description><![CDATA[<p>How many times have you decided to make a positive change in your life, given it your all for a month, and then given up? We&apos;ve all been there. Maybe you decided to get into shape, or into writing or yoga or cooking. Why didn&apos;t you</p>]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/identity-based-goals/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62f40f813b734d0344f16236</guid><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 21 Aug 2022 12:00:23 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1483884105135-c06ea81a7a80?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDF8fHBlcnNvbiUyMHNpbG91ZXR0ZXxlbnwwfHx8fDE2NjAxNjU5OTg&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1483884105135-c06ea81a7a80?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDF8fHBlcnNvbiUyMHNpbG91ZXR0ZXxlbnwwfHx8fDE2NjAxNjU5OTg&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Identity-based Goals"><p>How many times have you decided to make a positive change in your life, given it your all for a month, and then given up? We&apos;ve all been there. Maybe you decided to get into shape, or into writing or yoga or cooking. Why didn&apos;t you stick with it?</p><p>Forming new habits is one of the hardest things you can do, and there are many philosophies you&apos;ll find on the topic. There&apos;s unlikely to be a silver bullet here &#x2013; but here&apos;s one by <a href="https://jamesclear.com/">James Clear</a> that I found very interesting, and that I think can be quite a powerful tool for helping you chart your life.</p><h2 id="first-the-default-way">First: The &quot;default&quot; way</h2><p>When I think about making a positive change in my routine, my default is to set an achievable target &#x2013; </p><ul><li>&quot;In one month, I&apos;ll exercise 3 times a week&quot;</li><li>&quot;I&apos;ll read the Economist for 10 minutes every evening&quot;</li></ul><p>Sensible, right? It gives me something measurable, and makes it easy to track progress.</p><p><strong>The problem is that it&apos;s just a target</strong>. There&apos;s not much at stake. So what if I fail? I can always set a new goal in a few months&apos; time when the motivation stirs up.</p><h2 id="enter-identity-based-planning">Enter: Identity-based planning</h2><p>The above is what we call &quot;outcome-based habit forming&quot;. The outcome is your guiding light &#x2013; it&apos;s your be-all and end-all.</p><p>Instead, potentially a better approach is to use &quot;identity-based habit forming&quot;. To do so, <strong>you think about the person you want to become </strong>and then guide yourself with nudges in that direction.</p><p>For example:</p><ul><li><strong>I want to lose 10 kgs</strong> &#x1F852; I will become the person who uses muscle over machine &#x1F852; To prove this to myself, I will always take the stairs</li><li><strong>I want to make YouTube videos </strong>&#x1F852; I will become the person who posts on YouTube every week &#x1F852; To prove this to myself, I will spend 15 minutes on my YouTube every day, whether it&apos;s scripting, recording, editing</li><li><strong>I want to get a better job </strong>&#x1F852; I will become the person who has a large, active professional network &#x1F852; To prove this to myself, I will reach out to one person on LinkedIn everyday</li></ul><h2 id="why-is-this-a-better-approach">Why is this a better approach?</h2><p>James describes habit-forming with 3 levels.</p><ol><li>Changing <strong>Outcomes</strong>: This has to do with achieving specific targets, and is typically the default.</li><li>Changing <strong>Processes</strong>: This has to do with changing your workflow, which will then lead to better outcomes.</li><li>Changing <strong>Identity</strong>: This has to do with changing your world-view, which will lead to better processes, which will lead to better outcomes.</li></ol><p>If you go with (3) instead of (1), you are making a deeper change within your self &#x2013; and the theory goes that this change is more likely to take hold (and subsequently more difficult to erode).</p><p></p><p><em>How do you go about forming positive habits? Let me know by <a href="mailto:suhail@mg.suhailidrees.com">emailing me</a> / replying to this email!</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item><item><title><![CDATA[Why you should invest (and how)]]></title><description><![CDATA[We're all standing on a burning platform called inflation.]]></description><link>https://suhailidrees.com/why-you-should-invest-and-how/</link><guid isPermaLink="false">62ef9e003b734d0344f160ca</guid><category><![CDATA[Business]]></category><dc:creator><![CDATA[Suhail Idrees]]></dc:creator><pubDate>Sun, 14 Aug 2022 12:00:32 GMT</pubDate><media:content url="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1560221328-12fe60f83ab8?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDF8fHN0b2NrfGVufDB8fHx8MTY1OTg3NDI3NA&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" medium="image"/><content:encoded><![CDATA[<img src="https://images.unsplash.com/photo-1560221328-12fe60f83ab8?crop=entropy&amp;cs=tinysrgb&amp;fit=max&amp;fm=jpg&amp;ixid=MnwxMTc3M3wwfDF8c2VhcmNofDF8fHN0b2NrfGVufDB8fHx8MTY1OTg3NDI3NA&amp;ixlib=rb-1.2.1&amp;q=80&amp;w=2000" alt="Why you should invest (and how)"><p>The only reason you need to invest is this: <strong>The cash sitting in your bank account is continuously losing value every day. </strong></p><p>I must admit, it took me a long time to realise how much of a burning platform this is. </p><p>As I&apos;m writing this, the UK Gov website tells me that <a href="https://www.ons.gov.uk/economy/inflationandpriceindices/bulletins/consumerpriceinflation/june2022">inflation has made everything 8% more expensive in the last 12 months</a>. <strong>Since the cash in my bank account isn&apos;t inflating, my purchasing ability has gone down ~8%. </strong>We don&apos;t need to get into the reasons behind inflation. All you really need is a way to beat inflation or, at the very least, a way to beat the 0% return you are getting from your bank account.</p><h2 id="where-should-i-invest">Where should I invest?</h2><p>I&apos;m not a position to give you an investing strategy, but an easy place to start is by investing in &quot;index funds&quot;.</p><p>Index funds make your life simple by letting you <strong>buy a bit of everything</strong>. This is typically a good long-term medium-risk, medium-return strategy because you are effectively investing in the whole stock market, and the stock market as a whole will typically go up in the long-term. </p><p>When you buy 1 share of an index fund such as the &quot;S&amp;P 500&quot;, your investment is split across lots of different companies. This means a change in a single company&apos;s value won&apos;t affect you too strongly. In other words, you are spreading your risk.</p><h2 id="how-much-will-i-earn">How much will I earn?</h2><p>As an example, if you invested &#xA3;100 in the &quot;S&amp;P 500&quot; 10 years ago, it would now be worth ~&#xA3;400 (<a href="https://uk.finance.yahoo.com/quote/VUSA.L/history?period1=1337644800&amp;period2=1659830400&amp;interval=1mo&amp;filter=history&amp;frequency=1mo&amp;includeAdjustedClose=true">source</a>) at a return of ~14% every year.</p><p>In the same time period, goods costing &#xA3;100 would now cost ~&#xA3;125 (<a href="https://www.ons.gov.uk/economy/inflationandpriceindices/timeseries/l522/mm23">source 1</a>, <a href="https://www.ons.gov.uk/economy/inflationandpriceindices/bulletins/consumerpriceinflation/june2022">source 2</a>).</p><p>That means you would have beaten inflation by an order of magnitude.</p><h2 id="can-i-lose-money">Can I lose money?</h2><p>Yes. There is always a risk in investing, and an index fund can also go down. However, investing in an index fund is a great way of spreading the risk, because it&apos;s effectively tracking the whole market which in general trends upwards.</p><p>You can see below in the tracker for S&amp;P 500 that there are 3 noticeable dips: the dot-com bubble (2000), the great recession (2008) and the COVID recession (2020). In each case, the market recovers in a few years.</p><figure class="kg-card kg-image-card"><img src="https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/2022/08/image.png" class="kg-image" alt="Why you should invest (and how)" loading="lazy" width="842" height="280" srcset="https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/size/w600/2022/08/image.png 600w, https://suhailidrees.com/content/images/2022/08/image.png 842w" sizes="(min-width: 720px) 720px"></figure><h2 id="ok-so-how-do-i-actually-invest">OK, so how do I <em>actually</em> invest?</h2><div class="kg-card kg-callout-card kg-callout-card-grey"><div class="kg-callout-emoji">&#x2755;</div><div class="kg-callout-text">Before you invest, make sure you&apos;ve taken care of any outstanding high-interest debt, such as loans or credit cards. These will usually charge you more than you can typically earn from investing.</div></div><p>Investing is actually dead simple. If you haven&apos;t already starting this journey, I would highly recommend taking 30 mins <strong>today </strong>to get yourself started. You can figure out the details of where to invest later.</p><p><strong>3 steps for you to do today*:</strong></p><ul><li>Find any investment platform, such as <a href="https://www.vanguardinvestor.co.uk/">Vanguard</a> and make an account. <a href="https://www.thetimes.co.uk/money-mentor/article/best-investment-platforms-beginners/">Here are some other examples</a></li><li>Once you&apos;re in, set up an ISA, such as a <a href="https://www.vanguardinvestor.co.uk/investing-explained/stocks-shares-isa">Stocks and Shares ISA</a> &#x2013; this will let you invest up to &#xA3;20,000 every year without paying any tax on your earnings</li><li>Use this ISA to buy shares of anything you want. As a starter, you can try to buy 1 share of an index fund such as the S&amp;P 500 (<a href="https://www.vanguardinvestor.co.uk/investments/vanguard-s-and-p-500-ucits-etf-usd-distributing">link to Vanguard&apos;s S&amp;P 500 tracker</a>)</li></ul><p><em>(*) These steps are UK-specific, but some Googling will help you find the local equivalent version.</em></p><h2 id="next-steps">Next steps</h2><p>Once you&apos;ve got your feet wet, you should definitely spend some time researching where to invest. For example, you can invest in specific public companies, purchase crypto-currency, or even get into real estate.</p><p></p><p><em>Where are you on your investing journey? I&apos;d love to hear from you (reply to this email!)</em></p>]]></content:encoded></item></channel></rss>